Thursday, October 23, 2003

Character driven vs. Emotion driven

It's been a while since I wrote anything here. Pejam celik, pejam celik... dah hampir 2 bulan aku training kat Benua Sains. Kerja sebagai trainee @ sales engineer kat Benua Sains sudah menjadi sebahagian daripada hidupku sekarang. Minat aku dalam business pun semakin bertambah. It's not bad doing marketing although there is not much techinal task involved in my work.

Anyway, just want to share what i've read in 'Developing the Leader Within You' by John C. Maxwell. Beliau menyebut bahawa salah satu kualiti yang perlu ada pada seorang pemimpin ialah self-discipline. And one of the key to self-discipline is you have to become character driven instead of emotion driven. What is the difference?







Character driven people

Do right, then feel good

Are commitment driven

Make principle based decisions

Action controls attitude

believe it, then see it

Create momentum

Ask: "What are my responsibilities?"

Continue when problems arise

Are steady

Are leaders


Emotion driven people

Feel good, then do right

Are convenience driven

Make popular based decisions

attitude controls action

See it, then believe it

Wait for momentum

Ask:"What are my rights?"

Quit when problems arise

Are Moody

Are followers



Ada banyak betulnya apa yang ditulis oleh Maxwell tersebut dan aku merasakan ianya sangat sesuai utk. dijadikan kayu ukur oleh kita semua. Selamat bermuhasabah dan menilai diri sendiri. Tidak lupa juga... selamat menyambut ketibaan bulan mulia Ramadah al-Mubarak yang bakal tiba 2,3 hari lagi.

Wassalam.